Me and Deric are doing good. For awhile there we were arguing a lot, like big arguments. I don't even know why half the time. It made me nervous and scared because I love him so much and it made me feel like we weren't going to work. But alas...we are doing good now. I realize that when we argue like that I have the biggest need to run. To get away from the situation..even though that is like the worst thing to do at times...that is how i feel. I feel like i am shrinking and the only way to save myself is to run. But at most i would just go into the living room because i didn't know what to do and i didn't want to leave. Even though that sometimes was a bad idea. But i guess those are things we just have to learn from to make a relationship work, we have to work things out.
I really do love Deric. He's...well...everything I want. He's handsome, tall, muscular, smart, playful, romantic, cute, funny, quiet, and so much more. There is/was one thing we were arguing/ having an issue with that made me feel unwanted and confused. But i think we have that figured out or at least understand what each other feels and needs. Something that Deric has said to me a few times now that means a lot is that he would do anything for me. He wants me to succeed and be happy. He wants me to go to college and get a job that i want. I feel like sometimes he wants to give me the world. I know i don't say it and I think it's because i am scared to but Deric, I would do anything for you. I would do anything to make sure you were happy. I always feel bad when your upset because i feel like i need to help you and i want to make it better. I want to be with you for as long as I live, and I know you have been getting a lot of pressure to make that decision from others (I have not put the pressure on you so to speak), but i want you to know that I hope you want that to and i understand its a HUGE decision and i understand that you will ask when you are ready but know i am gonna be right here with you always. You make me happy and push me to be the best me i can be and i adore you.
I have been eating healthier, working out more, and doing yoga every day. I am trying to get into great shape or at least be how i want to be. I do it or myself and my self esteem and obviously for Deric and its nice to be told you look great. Plus i can look in the mirror and see the results the yoga is doing even if yoga isn't like the intense workouts i normally do...its strength and flexibility training in a calming way and I really love it. I am trying to stay healthy and i do feel a lot better overall.
Khaleesi is the best cat in the world. Even though she has some annoying habits like being a freak when i do yoga or biting my feet when they move under the sheets or talking in your face at 5am cause she wants attention or meowing like a dying child i could go on but I love her to death and i know that even though she annoys Deric at times he loves her just as much to. The way he talks to her sometimes makes me know he will be a great dad.
The other day i dealt with the drama that i did awhile ago with a psycho chick. Something so stupid and so long ago caused her to be childish and post it to everyone and get lots of attention from it. While i was left to be told some harsh things about harassment and being immature. Long story short, i don't harass people online nor was I immature. Once again she was beyond immature and just like Amelia where she wouldn't admit that she could be in the wrong or that there was no need to have such an immature reaction. She was the mature one no doubt by saying a lot of stupid crap making it sound like she was perfectly fine in everything she did and over everything. Obviously not. But in the end it doesn't matter cause some people will never be reasoned with because well...they are forever immature.
I am SO EXCITED. I am going to Baker in the fall and I will go into the vet tech program in the future!! They have a 100% job placement and that means i have a future and a cool one. I might get to work with tigers and lions and who knows what! I am so pumped cause i really want to do this and it will end great. I am so excited and nervous and i just don't know. But i am so ready!!!!! AHHHHH.
Right now I am happy
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PS. Here is a picture of my cat :) And see, getting fit :)
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